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Hometown, state: Hemphill, Texas
Age: 65
Family (spouse/partner; child, grandchildren): My husband Foy, three grown children and 13 grandchildren.
Hobbies/Interests: Teaching children’s Bible classes, quilting and playing games.
Favorite quote: “I have ALS — it DOESN’T have me!”
Date of ALS diagnosis: September 2007
Tell us about your life before ALS: I’m a preacher’s wife. For years I taught children’s Bible classes. I raised four children and did day care in my home. I was involved in a lot of volunteer activities -- I organized teachers’ supply rooms and hosted many events in and out of my home. And just for fun, I’ve taught many kids how to stand on their heads over the years!
Tell us about your life with ALS: I was 64 when diagnosed. I have had to learn it’s OK to ask for help and to graciously receive it. I’m learning to live for today and not borrow trouble for tomorrow.
Do you have a “life motto” or profound words to live by? Take one day at a time. Count your blessings! Accept what IS, rather than dwelling on what has been lost.
Has there been an “aha!” moment or a specific turn of events that has helped you live with ALS? EVERY MDA clinic is an “aha” moment, a burst of encouragement. Learning to accept each new “ism” (what is) as it comes has helped tremendously.
Tell us how ALS has brought new significance to any aspect of your life — family, attitude, hobbies/passions, career, etc.: Some things aren’t as important as they used to be! I treasure more than ever my husband, children, grandkids and friends. I am working to get family pictures in order and getting help from my friends to continue my quilting.
Is there anything else about you and/or ALS that you want to share with people who read your story? Yes, the diagnosis was devastating, BUT people need to know it’s NOT the end of the world. Live today and be grateful for what you have today. Cherish every precious moment you have with loved ones. Don’t waste time OR energy on anger. LIFE IS GOOD!
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