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Hometown, state: Tacoma, Wash.
Age: 65
Family (spouse/partner; child, grandchildren): My wife Suzanne, three children, four stepchildren and five grandchildren.
Hobbies/Interests: Spending time with family, gardening, fast cars, skiing, taking cruises.
Favorite quote: “Let’s rock and roll.”
Date of ALS diagnosis: December 2008
Tell us about your life before ALS: I grew up in the foundry business (Fick Foundry). Started a separate business with my brother Ted in 1986. I raised three children with my former wife, Lori. In 1995 I married Suzanne and acquired four stepchildren. I’ve exercised daily for 15 years just to keep up with all of them!
Tell us about your life with ALS: Speech and swallowing have been the most difficult aspects so far. I think I’m a pretty funny guy, but people can’t understand me! My wife thinks I’ve gotten creative with my own version of sign language. I still exercise every day to maintain my strength. I am also still working full time.
Do you have a “life motto” or profound words to live by? Appreciate the miracles and blessings of every day. Have an attitude of gratitude. Embrace hope.
Has there been an “aha!” moment or a specific turn of events that has helped you live with ALS? The quick response of Dr. Greg Carter, his nurse Phyllis and MDA staff, Leslie and Laura, have helped me deal with ALS in a positive way. I have been overwhelmed by the genuine kindness of people offering support and prayers.
Tell us how ALS has brought new significance to any aspect of your life — family, attitude, hobbies/passions, career, etc.: Our marriage and family life are even stronger than before. My wife thinks that as my voice has become softer, my heart has become more open to the love surrounding me. It has provided numerous opportunities daily to say, “I love you.” My relationship with God has also become deeper and stronger.
Is there anything else about you and/or ALS that you want to share with people who read your story? From Dave’s wife Suzanne: As Dave’s wife, I am truly grateful that ALS has provided our marriage and family [an opportunity] to openly acknowledge what an amazing husband, friend and father he is. He is truly an inspiration to those around him.
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